Praying for Ukraine and Learning Hard Forgiveness
I confess that I originally had a
different post pre-planned for release today. Interestingly enough, it featured
Corrie ten Boom and her perspective on problems in life. I still plan to
release that post, perhaps next time, especially since her views as
concentration camp survivor and later her voice of hope and grace are especially
poignant right now as most of the world struggles with how to think and feel
about the Ukraine situation—and none of it is positive.
Disbelief.
Hurt. Anger. Injustice. Worry. Fear. Grief. I’m sure I’m just scratching the
surface as to what many of us are grappling with as we watch, helplessly, as
Russia continues its invasion and unwanted domination of Ukraine. We watch
footage of missiles, rockets, and fires. We listen and read stories filled with
anguish and desperation. We wonder how anyone could ever do such a thing.
Attacks on innocents? Mass destruction? There are no words, no thoughts.
We
pray and pray, watching and waiting as this atrocity rages on. I’ve read and heard
stories of miraculous protection, rockets and missiles that totally missed or
failed to detonate, sparing untold lives. What a praise!! Thank You, God! Every
single one, even if it is just one, is a huge praise! And yet, there are still
others that go off resulting in losses that can never be reclaimed.
We
search for ways to help and find opportunities to donate to the refugees that
have mercifully escaped the horrors that ravage their homeland. So we give and
give and continue to pray and pray, but at the time of this writing, Russia is not
relenting, trapping who knows how many in a war zone.
I’ve
found my mind often going to Corrie ten Boom and her life of confident trust in
God no matter what. I’ve thought often of her words that inspire hope and
encourage gracious forgiveness and to stand strong in the face of fear as I’ve
wondered how men, women, and especially children are surviving. I’ve looked
into the faces of my children and the tears threaten to spill over, grateful
that we are safe and yet grieved and horrified that mothers in the Ukraine don’t
have that same freedom.
Corrie
ten Boom found the secret to the strength to do what many of us may find
unimaginable right now. Forgive. I’m finding myself less critical of the
prophet Jonah and in even more awe and wonder of Corrie as this crisis continues
to unfold. I confess that I’ve read the story of Jonah in the Bible so many
times and have often thought Why didn’t
he just go? God told him to, why didn’t he just obey? Why wouldn’t he want God
to spare a whole city of people? But we often forget the background
information.
Our Bibles spare
us the gory details of how cruel and violent the people of Nineveh were. I won’t
go into the details, but let’s just say, there’s a good reason why Jonah didn’t
want to go there. For one, he most likely wanted to stay alive. For two, even if
the people of Nineveh didn’t actively go against the Israelites in Jonah’s
lifetime, Jonah and the rest of the Israelites certainly knew who they were and
how vicious they were. How they would invade other people’s homelands and conquer
them, committing what would nowadays be considered horrific war crimes, unfit
for the evening news. As we watch Russia’s actions, can we really blame Jonah’s
reticence? If I’m to be really honest…I no longer can. I’m finding myself identifying
more with Jonah’s attitude than Corrie’s. I find that I struggle with anger as
I watch and think about how one entity’s selfishness, greed, and pride can
cause it to behave so poorly toward others. I find myself praying prayers of
worry as tensions escalate and heads-of-states have to make difficult and history-making,
world-changing decisions…no matter which side each decides to land on every
step of the way.
In the midst of
all this, as I’ve prayed and prayed for our leaders, for Ukraine, the relief
workers, missionaries, and churches, I found another prayer, a personal one,
surfacing from my heart. Lord, may Your
joy be my strength and Your grace be my guide. Somehow, it calmed my heart,
my thoughts. It refocused me, centering me on Christ. As I went about my day at
work, at home, the news flashed on TVs, alerts came to my phone, and people were
heard talking in tones laced with tension that comes from worry, Lord, may Your joy be my strength and Your
grace be my guide.
Yes, it applies
to my day-to-day as I interact with coworkers and clients and their families,
but it applies to everything…even to the Russia-Ukraine situation. Yes, I will
continue to pray for protection for Ukraine, give as I’m able to the refugee
efforts, and pray for wisdom for the leaders of the world. But, I can also pray
that the joy I’ve found in being forgiven will give me strength enough to
forgive the leaders of Russia, and the grace I’ve been given to live in God’s
freedom guide me in how to extend a heart and attitude of grace to the leaders
of Russia. As I’ve said and spoken on before, forgiveness and grace have
nothing to do with the “other person (or country).” If it did, I never would have been forgiven and never
would have received grace.
Choosing
forgiveness and choosing grace has nothing to do with their choices and
actions. It has everything to do with my own mind and heart and keeping myself
poison-free from those toxic emotions connected to memories—even if those
memories are still being formed. Is it hard? YES! Is it ongoing? At the time of
this writing—YES! It’s so hard; I don’t think I can do it on my own strength,
that’s why I need His.
I need the
strength and power from His joy and grace to fuel my ability to walk in
forgiveness and grace. Will there be justice? I certainly hope so, but, I am
not the judge or jury. My job is to keep my mind and heart clear before the
Lord because the number one most important thing in life is to be connected to
Him, and we can’t do that if we’re holding onto unforgiveness, bitterness, and
resentment.
So, I will
choose to dig deep into and cling to the joy I’ve found in my forgiveness in
Christ and focus on His grace to help me moment by moment choose a gracious
attitude even toward those who society deems unworthy of such gestures. Why?
Because that’s what Jesus did. And as I write this post, I wonder if that was Corrie’s
secret. Did she find such joy in being forgiven and did she remain so
laser-focused on His grace that it gave her the strength to not only survive
the unimaginable but to thrive and become a voice for the hope, healing, and
freedom found in forgiveness? Perhaps. I suppose I will never find out this
side of heaven. And Jonah? Did his heart ever change? Did he ever catch a
revelation of God’s forgiveness, or did he just watch it happen to others from
the sidelines? No idea. I suppose I will have to wait for that one too. But
either way, the path to forgiveness and living in a revelation of forgiveness
to the point that I am empowered to forgive even the unforgiveable is one that
for me, I will choose to walk every day, even if that every day needs to be
broken down into split-second increments. I pray that you will choose it too.
I pray that
every person who reads this post would have a revelation of God’s forgiveness
and grace in your hearts. I pray God’s joy would fill your hearts and minds and
be your strength as you go about your day. I pray that His grace would be your
guide, directing your actions and seasoning your words. I pray for an enlarged
capacity to experience the love and grace of God and also an enlarged capacity
to extend love and grace to others. I pray for eyes to see yourselves and
others the way God does. I pray for eyes that see with mercy instead of
judgment. Lord, I pray that You would show each person moment by moment and
step by step how to live and walk in forgiveness every day. Amen.